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Defeating the Steps

April 7, 2015 by Belghast

Family Calls

Over the weekend we had a crisis arise, but not one that directly effected our family. Early on Saturday around 2 am in the morning, my former brother-in-law while drunk wrapped himself around a tree. He was exceptionally lucky for many reasons. Firstly for hitting a tree he managed to get out of it with this life… but with several broken ribs and a collapsed lung. Secondly he managed to do all of this without injuring anyone else, and on private property… so there were no charges. Thirdly this means he did not get a DUI, and also means he is not in jeopardy of losing his job which in the contract has a morality clause. The problem is since death of my wife’s sister, a half dozen years ago… he has managed to systematically burn every bridge he had to rely on. My wife’s sister was a stabilizing force in his life, and without her he simply went out of control.

The thing is, given the age difference between my wife and her eldest sister this man was in many was as much a father to her as anyone else. He was this constant force in her life, which has made it impossible to completely write him off like so many have. So my wife got up at 3 am on Saturday and sat with him until 5 pm when someone finally relieved her. He never once thanked her for this or apologized for putting her through this… but nonetheless she feels obligated to be there. In a way I think she feels like her sister would want her to be there, trying to watch out for him. Last night she packed a bag, and went off to the hospital to stay the night, and took off work to spend the day there today. This morning I am a bit out of it because I never really sleep well when she is not at home. The cats kept me company, but I kept rolling over in bed being surprised that she was not there beside me. I have a feeling this is going to be a long day for both of us.

Defeating the Steps

With the 2.55 patch Final Fantasy XIV added the rest of the story line to set up the release of the expansion coming in June. With it came yet another Trial, the problem being that this trial is significantly different than the others. Instead of a big boss battle, you have an epic fight against a dragon on a bridge in which you with the help of your Ishgard allies use all sorts of machinations at your power to win the day. There are far more moving parts than your average story mode trial, and this means that players need to know their roles and perform them with split second precision at times. As such this has become the bane of the duty finder, causing players to simply not queue for trials roulette right now. I talked about this effect in other posts, since it has seemed to take a significant amount of time to fill trial duty parties. I myself queued three different times and each time the group failed… and then slowly disintegrated beyond our ability to stitch it back together.

Last night during our normal raid spot we took this encounter on, since we were down a few key people. I played the role of tank, which is a confusing mess of picking up adds and trying to drag them to the front of the bit dragon… so that the players with cannons can hit them. All of this time we are trying to avoid being stepped on and taking around 3000 hp worth of damage, often times being stunned at inopportune times. As the Dragon nears the cannons he explodes them causing AOE damage to anyone standing around them… and to the adds if they happen to be in range of them. At key points during the fight two players have to use these pillars to chain the dragon in place… and a third has to target and fire the Dragon Killer weapon. The timing here is super tight, if the dragon is not chained he will simply dodge the attack. In any case on our third attempt we managed to get all of the pieces in the right order and defeated the trial. Now I have waiting ahead of me what is supposedly the most important storyline in the game yet.

Moggle Mog Revisited

When we managed to down Moggle Mog extreme, there were a number of players missing from the group. As such last night we had four players who had not seen the encounter. We considered going and fighting Titan Extreme, but honestly none of us really relished the though of throwing ourselves against that. Moggle Mog and Titan are examples of two very different primal fights. In Titan it is all about repeating the same procedure over and over until you beat the boss, something we are apparently not great at. Moggle Mog on the other hand involves a lot of thinking on your feet and adjusting to the situation as it happens… a type of game play that we seem to excel at. With the new players that had not seen the fight it took us a handful of tries, but we managed to down him once more and got one of our newer players Grace a spiffy pink ribbon. I got the last one but unfortunately it doesn’t show up under my plate armor. I would absolutely wear it with pride however if it did show up.

Afterwards I started working through the post Steps of Faith content, but that was ultimately short lived. I was significantly more tired than I realized and before long I was logging for the night. I snapped this photo of me hanging out with Tataru, Minfilia’s right hand woman. Not sure why exactly, but early on in this game I latched onto her as one of my favorite characters. She is awesome and I feel deeply under appreciated in the Final Fantasy XIV scions storyline. There have been many times where she has saved the day, and gotten nothing more than a half heated acknowledgement by Minfilia. For all of these reasons I feel like Tataru and I are buds, and it was a cool moment in the story that allowed me to snap this photo. I would far rather be working for her, than the often clueless leader of the Scions. Tataru at least would know how and when to use a linkpearl, and I have actually seen her do things that were actually helpful… rather than just playing at the whole damsel in distress thing. Tataru for Scion President 2016!

The Future Is Now

October 18, 2014 by Belghast

Other Peoples Drama

Yesterday my wife and I went on an adventure to Northwest Arkansas. We have a deep sense of nostalgia about the Fayetteville area, because I guess it was one of the first towns we knew nothing about and wandered around together in. This is a thing we like to do, go to a new area without any real warning and see what all we can find. Combine this with the fact that my wife has a really awesome cousin in the area, and it is a location we try and get to as often as possible. For whatever reason however it had been a few years since we had managed to make the trek. I mean its not extremely far, but it still ends up being roughly a two hour journey from our home… so something we don’t exactly undertake lightly.

One of the coolest things about going up there is hanging out at our cousins place of business. She is a tattoo artist of some renown and the shop is always an interesting place. It gives us a window into lifestyles that are just somewhat hard to fathom. I guess I’ve always thought it was important to expose yourself to other ways of thinking, but there are times that I just sit back and cannot quite follow the logic that lead down some of the paths. I mean the family is awesome, but the shroud of drama that surrounds it is one part really bad luck and one part less than stellar decisions made in the midst of that bad luck. But what I love is just how valiantly they fight back against whatever circumstances they are thrown into. While constantly in struggle mode, you can feel the love and the life that they embrace.

The Future Is Now

Northwest Arkansas is known for a lot of things, but probably the biggest is that Bentonville is the headquarters of the Wal-mart corporation. As such you see some interesting machinations take root there that will likely filter out into the rest of the country. Yesterday while roaming around town we saw something interest, a Wal-Mart Pickup Grocery. In essence it looks like a non-descript warehouse building with a series of bright green drive in stalls similar to a drive in restaurant like Sonic. The idea apparently is that you order your groceries online, and then pull into the stall and punch in some code letting the folks inside know you are there. At which point they bring out your groceries and help you load them into your vehicle.

I have wanted exactly this same concept for years… and I am pumped to see that it even exists in a test market. For years I have wanted to be able to do my grocery shopping online and simply pull up to the store and load what I just bought. I really hate everything about grocery shopping, from the journey from cold to humid within each store, to the slow moving shoppers, to the desperate for small talk and validation cashiers. I mean I try my best to be pleasant through the average shopping trip, and keep from biting anyone’s head off… but it is a frustration that I would be more than happy to abandon. The prevalence of self checkout lanes greatly improved my shopping experience, and this is just the next step. The only thing that would improve it beyond this is maybe if robots delivered my groceries.

Playstation TV

Today I am wrapped up in my fuzzy little cocoon on the sofa, with cats napping beside me. After two days of heavy activity, I am ready to just be mostly comatose today. I got home late enough last night that I didn’t really get much chance to do anything. I did take a bit and hook up my Playstation TV and so far the results are mixed. I feel like I need to probably hard wire my ps4 into my network, so that only one of the two units is using wireless. Playing Destiny there was a noticeable lag to the gameplay. I mean it is probably no worse than when playing on the vita, but playing on a tiny screen with already awkward controls seems to make it less noticeable. I didn’t experience any of the graphical glitches that Pete Smith on G+. I am hoping if I hardwire my PS4 that it will help out the latency a bit.

I essentially need another HDMI hub downstairs as essentially I had to unplug my Chromecast to plug in the PSTV. The other thing that I guess I was not prepared for is that I would need another Vita memory card. So I have an HDMI hub and another memory stick on order that should arrive tomorrow. The base unit only has 1 gig of storage so there really was not much that I could even download to play on the unit. I will likely keep the chromecast hooked up until I get the rest of the bits to connect things up. Thankfully it recognized my Dual Shock 4 without any issue, and was able to play using that. The only problem I see there is that the PSTV doesn’t seem to take advantage of the touchpad at all, which makes some of the “Vita” interactions a bit awkward like the motion to “swipe away” a current application to close it is performed by holding down a button as the corner slowly peels away. I think once I get used to it, I will enjoy it more as it will extend the PS4 to yet another television.

The Family I Know

August 28, 2014 by Belghast

Of Large Families

I grew up Catholic which also means I come from a long line of extremely large families. My Grandfather was one of five children, and each of them for the most part had five or six children of their own. My mother for example is one of six siblings, and my “aunt” that just passed away is one of five. The end result is that the get-togethers on that side of the family where relatively massive. As a child I was completely comfortable with the way that “mom” and “dad” worked and “grandma” and “grandpa” but most of the other relationships just baffled me. As a result pretty much any adult female that was not either my mother or my grandmother ended up being my “Aunt”. No one decided to correct me so it stuck.

My Aunt Marilyn while technically my first cousin once removed, was an Aunt in every since of the word that actually mattered. She was this quiet presence in everything that happened in my life from the occasional little league game, to getting my eagle scout and to countless band concerts. She had a way of showing up at exactly the right moment. She also had this magical way of knowing exactly what was hip and trendy and whatever us kids might be into at the time. This morning I woke up to an alarm clock that she got me when I was 12 or 13, and every time I wake up to it I think of her. It was little things like that, something that she knew I would need but I didn’t even realize myself that just baffle me.

The Family I Know

At the Rosary on Tuesday night I got up to talk about my Aunt which is something I had wished I had been able to do at my Grandmothers funeral recently. I had regretted not saying something then, so I figured I shouldn’t pass the occasion now. In many ways this is the family I knew the most growing up and as a result they feel most like home. As kids my mother and my aunt Margaret Ann decided that me and my second cousins would be closer than that. As a result they tried to create as many opportunities for us to get together and play. Growing up I spent huge swaths of time either at their house or them in my hometown. When my wife and I decided to elope, it was my cousin that I called upon to stand up for me on the spur of the moment.

As we have all gotten busier we have drifted apart but seeing them yesterday was an extremely good thing. We exchanged the most current cell phones and promised to make plans to get together, and I sincerely hope we will. My generation is just going to have to start putting out the effort to make occasions to get together just like my parents generation did. As each of these members of the previous generation passes on what is going with them is more than their life. What is leaving is the glue that held us together. We will have to step in to make sure that bond doesn’t break. Each of us has reached a point in our lives where we are more or less stable, so it is time to start trying to see each other more often.

Down the Rabbit Hole

When I finally got home and put out a few fires, I was able to log into Final Fantasy XIV and check out the festival that started today. It seemed fitting that while I had been remembering family, the game had been having an in game remembrance event called the rising. For those that do not realize it, “A Realm Reborn” or FFXIV 2.0 is both literally and figuratively rising from the ashes of the previous game. When 1.0 came to a close they destroyed the world with the dread comet Dalmund and the arrival of the Primal Bahamut. The Rising event commemorates the rising of the world out of the ashes of the previous one. There is a single relatively short quest, that comes long with an extremely charming bit of storyline. Completing the quest gets the players a “Huzzah” emote that at least as a warrior causes me to jump up high into the air with my axe held aloft.

My focus over the last few days has been on getting my White Mage to thirty four so I can cast stoneskin. The problem is I have noticed I am sorely lacking another ability that comes from Thaumaturge. There was a point last night when I was healing a dungeon that I simply could not cast fast enough to save the tank who had moved out of range of my healing. If I had swiftcast which is a Thaumaturge cross class ability I likely could have saved him. Seeing the need for it I opted to start working on my Thaumaturge to at least get him to level 26. This is the way that everything seems to go in Final Fantasy XIV. In order to be truly efficient in one thing, you need a whole bunch of other things leveled as well. For the moment my goals are gearing the Bard through the hunt quests, and then working on Thaumaturge to 26 so I can continue onwards with my White Mage to the level cap.

Family but Not Family

August 26, 2014 by Belghast

Sleeping In

This mornings post is coming significantly late because yesterday was extremely draining. I am not sure how much of it I said in previous posts but yesterday I went to the funeral of my Great Aunt in Oklahoma City. Both my Mother and Father have their own medical issues to where if they were forced to drive it on their own they would have struggled seriously. Right now my mother is going through some back problems, and my dad vision problems… so I knew that I really needed to offer to drive. They are the type that would not likely have come out and asked for it, but the moment I offered they latched onto the idea with both hands. Multiple times during the day my mom said how grateful she was that I drove. I hate driving, especially on longer trips, but I figured it was a thing I needed to do.

The draining aspect was that I felt like I was essentially parenting my parents. My mothers hearing has been going through the years and the multiple hour trips to and from the city involved a lot of me yelling at the backseat so she could hear me. Anytime my father and I would attempt to carry on a conversation she would mishear a snippet of it and start off on a tangent. Which was fine but trying to jump like that all day long including when we were inches away from each other… really can wear you down. I am starting to wonder just how long it will be before we need to get her a hearing aide. Her mother/my grandmother wore one for as long as I can remember, so I am sure that bad hearing is simply another ailment that runs in the family. Since I seem to be a sponge for the bad ailments that both of my parents have… I will likely inherit that one as well.

Family but Not Family

Something about this batch of the family that you have to understand is that even though we are only two hours apart… I have not seen most of them in years. The last time I saw any of them I believe was at my grandmothers funeral almost a decade ago. I do not believe that any of them came up for my grandfathers funeral, which I guess makes sense as he was not related by blood to any of them. So a few of them I have seen within the last decade, but the bulk of them I have not seen since I was five or six. A couple of the people were recognizable from my memory banks, others were not at all. One of them I only remembered as the person who bit me once at a family reunion at Great Grandpa Smiths house… and he has been dead for longer than I can remember. Another one of the daughters wasn’t even alive back then, so I had never met her in any form.

This brand of the family seems to have a genetic disposition for girls… my great aunt had two daughters, and then each had two daughters… then when you get to the grandchildren there were something like 25 daughters and 1 single boy. But if you think about it… my grandmother and great aunt came from a batch of four girls and a single boy, so maybe it is just a thing with the smith DNA favoring females. My grandmother and great aunt talked every single day until my grandmother passed away, so there was an extremely tight bond there. Most of my recollection of my great aunt and uncle was from them coming to my hometown to visit. My grandparents were dairy farmers so they didn’t really go anywhere… they could only go so far as they could get back home by milking time. As a result people came to visit them… not the other way around, so large swaths of time passed between visitations.

It is weird to step into a room where everyone knows you, but you barely know them at all. Maybe I just wasn’t listening as my grandmother tried to relate all of the details of their lives, and maybe it was just simpler because my grandma only actually had three grandchildren to talk about instead of a veritable army of them. In any case it creates this whole situation where you know they are all related to you, but none of them really feel familiar like family should feel. They all have really amazing families from the looks of it. I went up to one of the girls husbands, and asked if his name was “Mike” because for some reason I knew that it was. Finally we figured that that he manages a nearby QuikTrip store that I go to pretty often. I would love to get to know them all better, but unfortunately the connective glue is gone. With my grandma gone and great aunt gone… as sad as it sounds I doubt the family will get together again like this. My generation just doesn’t seem to be as well connected to the past as the previous ones.

Another Weapon Down

When I finally got home last night I decided to start working on my Bard relic weapon quest line. As we have gotten people up to fighting level I spent a bit of time over the weekend barding it up. There are just situations where double dragoons is not the best idea in the world, and I don’t necessarily mind playing at a bard, in fact for short periods of time I find it extremely relaxing. Over the course of a series of dungeons run to catch Kodra up to being able to do high level roulette, I picked up enough upgrades to take my bard to ilevel 65. The biggest problem was that I still had a less than optimal weapon, and that more than anything was limiting my damage output. Since I was not feeling up to playing with the big kids last night, who unlocked the various zones needed to do elite roulette I decided to quietly plug away on the relic weapon.

Thankfully I had the foresight to get Warenwolf to bind my materia to the precursor weapon some time ago. All I needed to do was start in on the quest chain proper. The Dhorne Chimaera was as easy as they came, and within moments of queuing it popped and then about ten minutes later I had collected that first piece. The next piece involved running Amdapor Keep, and I have to say this was probably the trickiest part of the night. The queue took about 20 minutes, but when it finally popped the team that I ran it with went extremely smoothly… zero wipes and other than the tank pulling things a little differently than I was used to I had my rune in about thirty minutes time. After some running about I was on the kill 24 mobs step, which took a little bit of time to do but with my healer Chocobo out it went pretty easily.

Next up was the Hydra in Halatali, and it died extremely quickly as well. I think it might have died faster than the time it took me to queue for it. Finally was the last three primal fights, and this would have gone quicker had I not queued for normal mode Ifrit first instead. I guess I was more tired than I realized. Both Hardmode Ifrit and Garuda died in a single attempt, and then Titan took about three before we managed to beat the boss. I still have yet to get the whole rock bomb thing every single time. Like there is one specific pattern that always gives me fits, but overall while it took all evening it was definitely a doable task to get my relic weapon quickly. I hear there was a bit of a rollback last night due to the massive denial of service attack going on… so here is hoping I log back in again this morning and have my relic. Now I just need to finish collecting the bookrocks to be able to make it a Zenith weapon.

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